People are always judging what others do and say.
In my opinion you really shouldn't judge or criticize unless it's helpful.
Ask yourself: Is it my business what they do with their life?
Or do you just feel that they're doing things wrong and you should interfere.
Don't get me wrong, you could be right for interfering, it could very well be your business. But you should be sure it is before saying anything.
If you aren't their parent(or something like that) then you don't have as much say in what they do.
If you're a friend, be a friend, encourage them and love them or else they'll never change for the better. The more you discourage someone the worse they'll get.
Also check your intentions before jumping out and telling people what's right or wrong, if your intentions are not honorable or if they're selfish, then the outcome will be bad.
In my experience if you don't love someone you can't help them.
Maybe you should make sure that you're right about the circumstances first before jumping on that high horse of yours(I know you have one, everyone does!) and telling them how awful they are.
You don't always know what's going on, no one does.
But if you're sure, confront them with a spirit of gentleness, never respond with anger or harsh words because that will only hurt, not help.
Don't ever tell someone that God doesn't love them since they are doing something wrong, God ALWAYS loves EVERYONE.
Hate the sin, not the sinner.
When everyone was disappointing Him, God sent His only Son to save us. Now ask yourself: Do I really think He did that out of hatred?
_Herachio Joy
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