The Pot Is Calling The Kettle Black

People are always judging what others do and say. 
In my opinion you really shouldn't judge or criticize unless it's helpful.

Ask yourself: Is it my business what they do with their life?
Or do you just feel that they're doing things wrong and you should interfere.
Don't get me wrong, you could be right for interfering, it could very well be your business. But you should be sure it is before saying anything.


If you aren't their parent(or something like that) then you don't have as much say in what they do.
If you're a friend, be a friend, encourage them and love them or else they'll never change for the better. The more you discourage someone the worse they'll get.

Also check your intentions before jumping out and telling people what's right or wrong, if your intentions are not honorable or if they're selfish, then the outcome will be bad.

In my experience if you don't love someone you can't help them.

Maybe you should make sure that you're right about the circumstances first before jumping on that high horse of yours(I know you have one, everyone does!) and telling them how awful they are.
You don't always know what's going on, no one does.
But if you're sure, confront them with a spirit of gentleness, never respond with anger or harsh words because that will only hurt, not help.
Don't ever tell someone that God doesn't love them since they are doing something wrong, God ALWAYS loves EVERYONE.
Hate the sin, not the sinner.

When everyone was disappointing Him, God sent His only Son to save us. Now ask yourself: Do I really think He did that out of hatred?

_Herachio Joy 

Truly Significant & Important

You may not believe this, but you are very important.
If you have seen the movie, Hugo, you'll remember this. Hugo says that he thinks of the world as a giant clock or machine with no extra or unneeded parts. Every part is important and if one was missing the machine or clock wouldn't work correctly.
Well, it's kind of like if one letter on a keyboard was missing a lot of words would be messed up.
Don't give up, you can't just leave, things will get better. 
You're life is important and it's worth living even though it seems like it isn't worth living and like you're too small to make a difference. 
You do make a difference, you complete a lot of words, and you keep the clock (or machine) running!
Keep the keyboard writing, and keep the clock ticking. 
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Herachio Joy

P.S.
When something bad is going on or something is on your mind, talk someone who you trust about it. If they are a good friend they'll appreciate you telling them.<3I learned this from experience! ^-^

Just getting stronger.

The reason I made this blog is to inspire people and bring some hope to people. Hopefully people will read this blog and discover that they aren't alone. God is with them, and there's always people who care, if you can't see it, just look a little bit harder. If you still think no one cares, then care for them, people always care for people that care!

Me, I've been swept under the rug and discarded, many times, by the people I trusted.
Every time I let it hurt me, I let it get into my head and made myself believe that this happened because I was a problem. Every time I was just about to give up when something would happen that would give me hope! Somehow I would be fine every time, I only got stronger. If I could find those people who discarded me, I would sincerely thank them. They have helped me to be stronger and happier.
Thanks to them, I've actually grown up some!
This is a VERY joyful trial, it was difficult and painful. It was entirely brutal, and yet so very important to growing up!


So what I'm trying to say is that God had a plan for this, He helped me learn from this, He made me a better person using this.
I'ts so amazing that God can turn my most terrible experiences into a magnificent revelation and so much growth in my relationship with God. I've made horrible mistakes and failed countless times. 
God constantly is lifting me up and telling me, "You can make it, you are strong enough. This taught you to be a better person." He always believes in me and says that I can make it through. 


I hope you know that when you go through tough stuff, there is always a good reason for it being so difficult, making you stronger, and preparing you for a future that God has planned. 
You must be especially precious to God if Satan is trying that hard to crush you.
Satan must have a good reason for trying to make you give up, he knows that God has a powerful, important plan for your life. God only lets you go through what you can handle.
Hold on and remember that God has an amazing plan, even when things seem completely hopeless.<3
"You can't have a rainbow without any rain."<3
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Herachio Joy